A Sharp Pain in the Night
Sixteen days after the birth of my baby I was sat on the sofa watching TV around 8pm when I suddenly experienced a sharp pain in my chest. I didn’t think much of it initially and took some painkillers shortly after. That night in bed I realised I couldn’t lie down without the pain getting worse. I barely slept and tried to prop myself up with pillows.
Getting Worse
The pain continued through the next day — by 4pm it was significantly worse and the pain medication was no longer working. I decided to seek some medical advice over the phone at this point. I was immediately advised to head to hospital with urgency.
Finally Taken Seriously
Initially my symptoms were not recognised until they worsened. One nurse even tried to tell me I was experiencing a panic attack. I was told to breathe, calm down, and that I was having a panic attack — but I was actually struggling with shortness of breath due to a clot and collapsing lungs. I was distressed and crying because I was scared and being dismissed. Once they attached monitors and saw my rocketing heart rate I was suddenly taken seriously. A scan on my lungs confirmed a PE diagnosis and both my lungs had partially collapsed.
Three Days Away From My Baby
I stayed in hospital for three days away from my baby, which was deeply distressing — but thank goodness I survived. I was not spoken to about the risk or symptoms of blood clots postnatally so I didn’t recognise them and that could have cost me my life.
Here to Watch My Daughter Grow Up
I’m so glad I’m here to watch my daughter grow up. I was very lucky. More needs to be done to warn women of the risks of a blood clot both in pregnancy and immediately postpartum, to prevent someone sitting at home like I did — but things could have ended so differently. Medical professionals need further education to rule out something serious like a PE before assuming it’s a minor issue.
What I’ve Learned
Since my experience, I’m more aware of the increase in risk when considering things like birth control. I’m aware of the effects my medical history has and I’m empowered to advocate for myself.
My Advice
Educate yourself on your risk factors, the symptoms and don’t be afraid to seek medical help.
